One thing we all have to understand is that there will be people who don’t agree with us. I’m going to tell you why not everybody is going to like you, and why it’s ok.
Not Everybody Is Going To Like You
Think about a bird singing on a tree branch. He may end up waking people up and those people will resent the bird. Do you think the bird cares? Not one bit! The bird’s job is to sing. He’s going to sing, whether you like it or not. How Does this apply to you? I remember ever since I was young, that I hated it if someone had a bad opinion of me. This affected me a lot. It’s something that I’ve battled with for most of my life. Thankfully, I can now say that I have truly broken free from it. I realise now that if someone doesn’t like me, it’s got nothing to do with me but everything to do with them and whatever issues they have in their lives. It’s probably because they hate themselves.
You Are Not Designed For Everyone To Like You
You’ve got to accept who you are. Other people’s opinions of you is their problem not yours. Think about it, they are the ones that are upset and that’s totally their decision. Why on earth would you let that affect you? You weren’t made to please everybody. You were made to please yourself! Who cares if someone doesn’t agree with you. If you start bending to please one person, there’ll be someone else that doesn’t like you. It’s a vicious cycle that you don’t need to be in. If people don’t like you that’s ok. As long as you are being true to yourself. That’s all that matters. Think about how insane it is for someone not to like you because you are being yourself! That person simply doesn’t deserve to be in your life. The moment you start changing your behaviour to please other people is when you completely lose sight of your value!
You Can’t Please Everyone
I hope that 1 person realises that it’s ok if people
don’t like them. How have you handled situations
like this in the past? I’d love to hear in the comments.
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